Relationships

A relationship is such a platform of humanity that the nature has ever created. Had there been no relationships, the world would not have existed till this far. Had there been no relationships, our modern science would not have made such advancements. Had there been no relationships our society would have been disintegrated. A relationship is such a feeling that brings two individuals close to each other, two religions close to each other or may be two or more states, two or more nations or we can say a relationship brings the whole world together. Today we speak about unity, but where from this unity arrived, had there been no relation between two individuals. Relationships make us strong, weak, affectionate, loving, caring, may be sometimes compassionate or possessive, cruel or kind or who knows may be something abstract. But it is the basis of the relationships that we carry in our life that brings in a change on our lifestyles. A relationship brings in an enhancement in our thought process; it brings in a change in our activities. We tend to do something good, that may be because of the relationship that we have with someone good and on the contrary we may take up something bad and to go to the grassroots of this problem we can make out that it might have happened due to the relationship that we are having with someone bad. There is always an effect of a relationship on a person. It is because of this effect that what we become or we grow up into. When a child is born in this world, immediately a number of relationships get attached with him or her. He or she becomes someone’s son or daughter, someone’s brother or sister, someone’s cousin, someone’s nephew or niece and many more blood relationships like this.

There are relationships that we are born with in this world, but besides this there are also relationships that we make after coming into this world. The most amazing fact of life is that those relationships that we are born with lasts throughout or life but the relationships that we make after coming into this world also stay with us till we die and even after that. We shoulder certain responsibilities just to maintain some relationship or the other. We surrender ourselves to those whom we can bank upon. A relationship is that abstract attraction between two or more individuals that bind them together and let them understand each other, let them feel for each other, let them care for each other. A child grows up seeing many relationships in life and the influence of those relationships make him or her a better person suitable for the society. He or she learns how to adapt in any situation, how to mould themselves in any situation, how to make the best out of any situation. It is the basis of such relationships that what people do in their day to day life. If a relationship of a person with someone remains good or healthy then it brings a harmony and peace in that everything that he does whereas if there is any level of discomfort in the relationship that he is having with someone then it is clearly reflected in the work that he does because he loses the enthusiasm to finish his work, or he may commit mistakes in finishing the work.

There can be many forms of relationships, as it is already given that the a person comes into this world with many in born relationships whereas after coming into this world he or she acquires many more relationships and many among them remains to be good enough to last till death or even after that. But not always we make relationships that are good, we often come across relationships that leave us shattered, that make us feel down and broken. We often tend to lose our confidence may be just because of the fact that we have had a bad relation with someone. May be someone has not been good to us and that make us depressed. So we can see that our life is full of such relationships that give us both something good and even bad. Someone might take us into confidence and we may think that we are having a good relation with him and we start having a blind faith on him, but he may deceive us and he may leave us with a failure. It is not that every time we will get someone to have a good relation with. In our entire life we may get to meet many with whom we can never have any good relation. When a person grows up he or she may fall in love with someone and that may lead to a lifelong journey with each other. Thus a relation is formed which will last forever. He or she may get friends, among them few of them will remain in a good relationship with each other whereas some of them may not have that much of a good relationship and they may not even remain in touch with each other throughout the life. Relationships are of various ways, and a relationship may form between any two or more individuals. These two or more individuals may or may not be of the same age, or the same class, the same race, the same religion rather they even might have taken birth in absolutely two different parts of the world.

Today whatever we feel it is just entirely dependant on the relationship that we have or we make. We feel good, we feel bad, we feel romantic, kind, compassionate, or at times we get angry on someone, we feel terribly sorry for something and we start hating someone or even in worse case we may feel paranoid or get scary on any relationship. The extent of a good or bad relationship can be anything. But we conclude in only one thing that without these relations the world would not have existed, without these relations our humanity would not have been cultured, otherwise we would have remained blocked in our unknown peripheries.