Nature of Relationships

Since relationships are not based on certain pre-decided norms and rules so no one can say that what a person should exactly do to maintain a healthy relationship. But general ideas can be developed about relationships by seeing from our parents and others or from relationships from our past. Often we make mistakes in relationships and when we rectify those mistakes we learn from those mistakes and it helps us in future. Thus from our past relationships we do get to learn a lot and as time passes by we mature on this subject. When after all these we move for a live-in relationship we already keep in our mind about the pros and cons of the entire matter and if this relationship succeeds then we may think of the marriage association in later future. Actually on one hand a relationship is the simplest platform of humanity, again on the other hand a relationship is also so much complicated in nature that it often disagrees certain realities of nature. Like it may happen that after coming across a long way with someone in any form of a relationship, one fine day we may see that few of their attitudes, nature and characteristics do not match to the person whom we have known till this far. One fine moment can make us realize that we have been having a relationship with an absolute stranger, whom we have not known at all. Rather we have known the other side of that human being which is a fake and that does not exist. What happens when situations like these crops up is we tend to dislike that person, we intentionally ignore that person and when situations go beyond a certain level then we may even tend to become harsh on him or her. Relationships are not only good and positive but also there are negative shades to a relationship. It’s not hard and fast that in our lifetime we always make good relationships but we also make certain relationships that are not good at all and thus feelings like anger, agony, paranoia, disbelief and few others like this grow in our mind.

On the contrary sometimes it happens that we come across a person and in few moments an emotional attachment builds up with him or her. May be in a few fragile minutes he or she can come so close to us that we may decide to spend the rest of our life with them. We may bank upon them so much and we may consider them that they are the closest person to us. In many cases it has also happened that in a few minutes a couple got tuned with each other and that relationship lasted life long. Thus no one can say that there is a secret to maintain a healthy relationship but we can definitely say that one should try from the heart to do so because it is a complicated yet a simple task, only one needs to be understanding, adjustable and should have the respect and faith towards the other person.